The Intentional Marriage is all about you as a couple connecting with your identity in marriage, answering the question of how to build an emotionally healthy marriage and finally giving you the tools to help you and keep you growing together!

Whether you have a struggling marriage, healthy one, or maybe you are not even married yet, this is for you! You are invited to join speakers Bryan and Stephanie Vignery, who have spent years equipping and empowering couples to have the best marriage possible. You are sure to leave not only with practical tools and steps to apply but will also leave motivated, inspired and re-energized in your marriage.

What Will I Learn?

Emotional Health

So often couples fall into the trap of having an emotionally unhealthy marriage. Find out how to understand emotions so you can win emotionally in your marital relationship.


We all carry baggage into our marriage that leaves us broken. Most people do not spend time working on that baggage. Find out how dealing with your baggage increases the intimacy in the relationship!

Love & Respect

Marriages that are rooted in reacting to each other have a high rate of conflict. When couples make an intentional shift to responding to each other they will experience love and respect.

"It opened my eyes on how I viewed God. I WILL BE MORE Intentional! I never realized it’s importance." - Daniel

We Look Forward to Seeing You at a Weekend Event Soon

What Should I Expect?

We create a laid-back, comfortable environment of growth for The Intentional Marriage Weekend. We want you and your spouse (or future spouse) to experience peaceful time together with no distractions. Check in is Friday from 5-6 p.m. and the event runs through Saturday at 4 pm. You will have multiple presentations in lecture format with short breaks. You will also have alone time for you and your spouse to work on special projects designed to instill emotional growth into your relationship through communication and connection. We are excited for you to experience The Intentional Marriage Weekend!


"The value I received from the workshop was togetherness with my husband – being us and communicating what we are needing to work on." - Rachelle

Bryan & Stephanie Vignery

Bryan and Stephanie Vignery have been called on a mission to influence, inspire and impact peoples lives from a perspective of the whole person; mind, body and soul. We believe that people need to be intentional intellectually, emotionally, physically and Spiritually from a Christ-centered perspective. We believe that being intentional in one of those areas will encourage growth in the other three areas. God designed us to function in all four areas with effectiveness. When we do, we have life and have it abundantly!

In the fast pace of our American culture, we need to be intentional if we are going to grow and be impactful with our marriages. Without intention we have a tendency to get complacent and stagnant which ultimately leads to deception and destruction. God has called us to go and make disciples; we can only do that if we are embracing our Creator and seeking His will for our lives. We are building an avenue to experience God in an abundant way and in the peace and serenity of Gods creation and beauty.

Bryan Vignery has worked with people of all ages since 1995 with the intention of growth. Through his own growing experience he has discovered ways to overcome the barriers in his own life in order to be able to teach and encourage others to do the same. In 2002 Bryan was at a fork in the road and was asking God for direction. One fork looked toward attending seminary and the other fork looked toward finishing a degree in the counseling psychology field. After debating this fork in the road, Bryan decided to finish his degree and pursue a masters in counseling psychology. Upon that decision God spoke to Him in confirmation of the choice and instructed him to be obedient to understanding and learning the clinical side of private practice and psychology. It was the next statement that now is creating the radical change. He said that He was not going to keep him in the private practice psychology field because He has something greater for him to do.

Stephanie has been an entrepreneur all of her life and has owned multiple businesses. She has been called to motivate, inspire and influence people, especially women. Her passion is to help people not only transform and shape their body, but also transform and shape their mindset. She encourages them to see how much the mindset plays such an important role of where they have come from, to where they are going towards their dreams, passions and goals. Finding out the reason "Why" they want to reach the goals that they have. If the “why” is not big enough, she find that people give up. She believes people will be ready to reach that goal when their “why” is big enough! They reach their goals when the belief, drive and motivation is present in their life.

When God crossed the paths of Bryan and Stephanie, they knew right away they were called to ministry. On their first date they shared childhood dreams of impacting marriages. Little did they know that 10 years later the dream of The Intentional Marriage would come in to the picture. This dream became a confirmation that the “something greater” God was promising is now God's vision for their lives!


Everyone needs help along their journey at some point. We hope you find these posts helpful on you journey toward The Intentional Marriage.

We Welcome Your Comments or Questions

Bryan and Stephanie Vignery are excited to meet you in one of our upcoming workshops. We know that God has a great plan for you and your marriage. We are honored to play a small part in that plan! For more information please fill out the form to the right and we will be in touch with you.

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The Intentional Marriage

Our mission is to assist couples to plot a course through intentional choices that result in action that empowers growth in Christ.

Today’s marriages need intention more than ever before. With the divorce rate at approximately 50% percent for first marriages, 67% for second and 74% for third marriages, couples need to spend time looking at what is important in keeping marriage fresh and alive! We are committed to helping couples reach a new level of effectiveness in their marriage.

Bryan & Stephanie VigneryAuthors and Facilitators


Instructors:  Bryan & Stephanie Vignery

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