Discover what is really shaping the connection in your marriage.
A warm, Christ-centered marriage assessment that helps couples see their strengths, name their growth areas, and take the next faithful step toward deeper love.
Marriage Snapshot
Personalized after your assessment
Health
78
Top Strength
You still want closeness.
Growth Path
Move from reaction to response.
Why Couples Trust It
Built From Over 20 Years of Helping Couples
The Intentional Marriage Health Profile was developed from more than two decades of marriage counseling, marriage intensives, workshops, and biblical teaching.
Rather than providing generic relationship advice, it helps couples identify the specific strengths, patterns, and growth opportunities shaping their marriage.
20+ Years Counseling Couples
Thousands of Marriage Sessions
Biblically Grounded Framework
The Book Behind the Framework
Built on a Proven Marriage Framework
The Intentional Marriage Health Profile is built upon the same biblical principles and counseling framework found in our book, The Intentional Marriage: A Guide to Building Love That Lasts.
You do not need to own the book to benefit from this assessment. Your personalized report provides practical, Christ-centered guidance based on your responses.
If you choose to continue your journey, the book becomes a companion resource that helps you apply these principles more deeply in everyday life.
What You'll Receive
A personalized path for practical growth.
Marriage Health Score
Understand where your marriage is today.
Core Strengths
Discover what is already working well.
Growth Opportunities
Identify the patterns quietly limiting connection.
Personalized Growth Plan
Receive practical Christ-centered next steps tailored to your marriage.
The Intentional Way
Bryan & Stephanie Vignery
The Intentional Way was created to help couples build love that lasts through Biblical truth, emotional honesty, and practical growth. Bryan and Stephanie bring a combined counseling and ministry perspective that helps couples see both the pattern beneath the problem and the faithful next step toward repair, connection, and covenant intimacy.
Together, their voices shape an assessment experience that is warm, direct, grace-filled, and grounded in real marriage formation.
Bryan's First Thoughts
Bryan's perspective helps identify the deeper pattern beneath the presenting issue and points couples toward a growth path.
Stephanie's First Thoughts
Stephanie's perspective brings a counseling voice that notices emotional safety, forgiveness, tenderness, and repair.
Assessment Categories
A fuller picture of marriage health.
Communication
Conflict
Trust
Forgiveness
Emotional connection
Spiritual unity
Baggage
Identity
Intimacy
Purpose
Prayer
Commitment
Personalized Report Preview
Clear enough to act on. Gentle enough to receive.
Your report is designed to help you understand what is happening in your relationship and what to do next, without reducing your marriage to a score.
Top Strength
A desire to reconnect
Growth Opportunity
Fear-driven reactions
Primary Framework
React vs Respond
Next Practice
Emotional Pause
Recommended Reading
Book chapters and exercises
Scripture and prayer woven into the journey
The assessment can guide couples toward prayer, reflection, and Scripture that support the growth area they are facing.
Book chapters and exercises for next steps
Recommendations can point couples back to the right chapter, page, worksheet, practice, or conversation exercise.
Couple Invitation
Invite your spouse into the same growth conversation.
One spouse can begin today, then invite the other to complete their own profile. When both have responded, the couple view helps reveal shared strengths, perception gaps, and places where you can grow together.
Create your account
Start privately and answer honestly.
Invite your spouse
Send a secure invitation when you are ready.
Review together
Use the report to begin a better conversation.
Christian Leader Endorsements
Trusted by Christian Leaders Across Churches, Counseling, and Ministry
“If you want a marriage that lasts, not just survives—get this book.”
Clint Sprague
Lead Pastor
LifeMission Church
“This isn't just a book to read—it's a process that can reshape your heart, your mind, your habits, and your marriage.”
Micah LaCerte
Host, SoulFit TV
Founder, Hitch Fit
“Christ as the only sure foundation... practical, biblical tools to build something that actually lasts.”
Daniel S. Chrystal
Attorney, CEO, Author
Chrystal Law, Inc.
Questions Couples Ask
FAQ
Start Building Love That Lasts
Every healthy marriage grows through intentional choices.
Discover your strengths.
Identify your next step.
Build your marriage with purpose.