Discover what is really shaping the connection in your marriage.
A warm, Christ-centered marriage assessment that helps couples see their strengths, name their growth areas, and take the next faithful step toward deeper love.
Private, practical, and designed for real couples.
Marriage Snapshot
Personalized after your assessment
Health
78
Top Strength
You still want closeness.
Growth Path
Move from reaction to response.
For honest clarity
See what is strong, what feels strained, and what needs tender attention.
For safe conversation
Use shared language that lowers defensiveness and opens the door to repair.
For guided growth
Receive next steps connected to The Intentional Marriage book and practical exercises.
What The Assessment Is
A counseling-informed look beneath the surface.
The Intentional Marriage Health Profile helps couples move beyond symptoms and consider the deeper places where identity, fear, past wounds, emotions, prayer, and covenant shape daily connection.
Your marriage health score and growth stage
Top strengths to celebrate together
Growth areas with clear next steps
Book chapters, pages, exercises, prayers, and Scriptures
A 30-day growth path you can begin right away
The Intentional Way
Bryan & Stephanie Vignery
The Intentional Way was created to help couples build love that lasts through Biblical truth, emotional honesty, and practical growth. Bryan and Stephanie bring a combined counseling and ministry perspective that helps couples see both the pattern beneath the problem and the faithful next step toward repair, connection, and covenant intimacy.
Together, their voices shape an assessment experience that is warm, direct, grace-filled, and grounded in real marriage formation.
Bryan's First Thoughts
Bryan's perspective helps identify the deeper pattern beneath the presenting issue and points couples toward a growth path.
Stephanie's First Thoughts
Stephanie's perspective brings a counseling voice that notices emotional safety, forgiveness, tenderness, and repair.
Assessment Categories
A fuller picture of marriage health.
Communication
Conflict
Trust
Forgiveness
Emotional connection
Spiritual unity
Baggage
Identity
Intimacy
Purpose
Prayer
Commitment
Personalized Report Preview
Clear enough to act on. Gentle enough to receive.
Your report is designed to help you understand what is happening in your relationship and what to do next, without reducing your marriage to a score.
Top Strength
A desire to reconnect
Growth Opportunity
Fear-driven reactions
Primary Framework
React vs Respond
Next Practice
Emotional Pause
Recommended Reading
Book chapters and exercises
Scripture and prayer woven into the journey
The assessment can guide couples toward prayer, reflection, and Scripture that support the growth area they are facing.
Book chapters and exercises for next steps
Recommendations can point couples back to the right chapter, page, worksheet, practice, or conversation exercise.
Couple Invitation
Invite your spouse into the same growth conversation.
One spouse can begin today, then invite the other to complete their own profile. When both have responded, the couple view helps reveal shared strengths, perception gaps, and places where you can grow together.
Create your account
Start privately and answer honestly.
Invite your spouse
Send a secure invitation when you are ready.
Review together
Use the report to begin a better conversation.
Questions Couples Ask
FAQ
Take the next intentional step.
Begin with honesty. Continue with grace. Let the assessment help you see the next step toward deeper connection.