Weeks 1–2 · Notice and Strengthen
Begin With Awareness
Week 1 — Awareness Before Change
Notice patterns before trying to fix them.
Week 2 — Strengthen What Is Already Working
Recognize and protect the strengths already supporting your marriage.
Intentional Marriage Health Profile
Discover what is really shaping the connection in your marriage.
A warm, Christ-centered marriage assessment that gives couples a Marriage Profile, a Marriage Health Score, a Primary Growth Zone, and one faithful next step toward deeper love.
Marriage does not fix us. It reveals us.
Takes about 12-15 minutes
Secure and private by design
Personalized guidance for every couple
Marriage Snapshot
Personalized after your assessment
Health
78
Communication82%
Emotional safety68%
Spiritual connection74%
Top Strength
You still want closeness.
Growth Path
Move from reaction to response.
Why Couples Trust It
Built From Over 20 Years of Helping Couples
The Intentional Marriage Health Profile was developed from more than two decades of marriage counseling, marriage intensives, workshops, and biblical teaching.
Rather than providing generic relationship advice, it helps couples identify the specific strengths, patterns, and growth opportunities shaping their marriage.
Unlike a personality test or generic relationship quiz, the Intentional Marriage Health Profile helps uncover the beliefs, patterns, and growth opportunities shaping your marriage today.
20+ Years Counseling Couples
Thousands of Marriage Sessions
Biblically Grounded Framework
The Book Behind the Framework
Built on a Proven Marriage Framework
The Intentional Marriage Health Profile is built upon the same biblical principles and counseling framework found in our book, The Intentional Marriage: A Guide to Building Love That Lasts.
You do not need to own the book to benefit from this assessment. Your personalized report provides practical, Christ-centered guidance based on your responses.
If you choose to continue your journey, the book becomes a companion resource that helps you apply these principles more deeply in everyday life.
What You'll Receive
A personalized path for practical growth.
Marriage Profile
Understand the season your marriage is currently in and what it means for your next season of growth.
Marriage Health Score
Receive a clear snapshot of your marriage health with encouragement, not shame.
Primary Growth Zone
Identify the one area most likely to strengthen connection.
One Faithful Step
Receive one practical step you can begin immediately.
Included With Your Profile
Your Results Become an Eight-Week Growth Path
Your personalized report is a beginning, not a label. After you complete the profile and receive your results, The Intentional Marriage Growth Path helps you take one faithful, manageable step each week—on your own or alongside your spouse.
Weeks 3–4 · Understand and Respond
Focus Your Growth
Week 3 — Understand Your Primary Growth Zone
Use your results to identify the most helpful place to begin.
Week 4 — Move From Reacting to Responding
Slow familiar patterns and practice a more intentional response.
Weeks 5–6 · Build Safety and Connection
Practice Intentional Connection
Week 5 — Create Emotional Safety
Make room for honesty, care, and understanding.
Week 6 — Practice Intentional Connection
Turn insight into a simple rhythm of meaningful connection.
Weeks 7–8 · Repair and Continue
Carry Growth Forward
Week 7 — Repair, Forgive, and Reconnect
Practice a healthy path back toward one another.
Week 8 — Build Your Continuing Growth Plan
Choose the rhythms that will help you keep growing with intention.
Each week includes: a brief teaching, Scripture, prayer, personal reflection, a practical 15–20 minute exercise, and clear Individual and Couple applications.
You can move through the Growth Path on your own or alongside your spouse—without comparing scores or using the results as labels.
Choose Your Assessment
The Intentional Way
Bryan & Stephanie Vignery
The Intentional Way was created to help couples build love that lasts through Biblical truth, emotional honesty, and practical growth. Bryan helps couples recognize the deeper pattern beneath the presenting issue, while Stephanie helps couples receive those insights with tenderness, emotional safety, forgiveness, and practical hope.
Together, their voices shape an assessment experience that is warm, direct, grace-filled, and grounded in real marriage formation.
Bryan's First Thoughts
Bryan's perspective helps identify the deeper pattern beneath the presenting issue and points couples toward a growth path.
Stephanie's First Thoughts
Stephanie's perspective brings a counseling voice that notices emotional safety, forgiveness, tenderness, and repair.
Assessment Categories
A fuller picture of marriage health.
These categories work together to reveal your strengths, the patterns shaping your connection, and the opportunities for intentional growth.
Communication
Conflict
Trust
Forgiveness
Emotional connection
Spiritual unity
Baggage
Identity
Intimacy
Purpose
Prayer
Commitment
Personalized Report Preview
Clear enough to act on. Gentle enough to receive.
Your report is designed to help you understand what is happening in your relationship and what to do next, without reducing your marriage to a score.
Marriage Profile
A clear picture of your current season
Marriage Health Score
An encouraging snapshot of where you are
Primary Growth Zone
The one area to focus on first
React vs. Respond Profile™
How you get stuck and how to move toward connection
One Faithful Step
A practical step you can begin immediately
Scripture and prayer woven into the journey
The assessment can guide couples toward prayer, reflection, and Scripture that support the growth area they are facing.
Book chapters and exercises for next steps
Recommendations can point couples back to the right chapter, page, worksheet, practice, or conversation exercise.
Couple Invitation
Invite your spouse into the same growth conversation.
One spouse can begin today, then invite the other to complete their own profile. Each spouse completes the assessment privately. When both finish, the combined report helps reveal shared strengths, perception gaps, and opportunities to grow together.
1
Create your account
Start privately and answer honestly.
2
Invite your spouse
Send a secure invitation when you are ready.
3
Review together
Use the report to begin a better conversation.
Christian Leader Endorsements
Trusted by Christian Leaders Across Churches, Counseling, and Ministry
“If you want a marriage that lasts, not just survives—get this book.”
Clint Sprague
Lead Pastor
LifeMission Church
“This isn't just a book to read—it's a process that can reshape your heart, your mind, your habits, and your marriage.”
Micah LaCerte
Host, SoulFit TV
Founder, Hitch Fit
“Christ as the only sure foundation... practical, biblical tools to build something that actually lasts.”
Daniel S. Chrystal
Attorney, CEO, Author
Chrystal Law, Inc.
Questions Couples Ask
FAQ
Start Building Love That Lasts
Every healthy marriage grows through intentional choices.
Discover your Marriage Profile.
Identify your Primary Growth Zone.
Take one faithful step toward deeper connection.